Relationships blogs have many different points of view and encompass a variety of relationship and love issues. The reason this relationship blog came to be was because I felt too many women are afraid to tell one another what they really think when it comes to love and relationships. There are some really great relationship,dating, and love blogs out there, don?t get me wrong, but some of them really wanted to make me puke.
There is one popular relationship blog that encourages women to date multiple men at the same time. I agree with that, if you are the kind of woman that wants to date multiple men before she choose the pick of the little. But what if you are not? Most women I have known do not want to date tons of men at the same time, they want to date a man and see if it can work out before she begins dating someone else. For her, to date others at the same time does not feel right. And if she really wants one guy in particular, isn?t she wasting the other guys time? Most women would feel that way, that is why they do not do it. So, they should not.
I see articles on ?How to make a man fall in love with you? and know, before reading them, that you cannot make just any man fall in love with you. He falls in love with you, YOU do not MAKE HIM. I hate articles like that. Same with the ?How to attract a man? ones as well. You can attract them by being pretty and wearing slutty clothes. But then what? We all know how to look our best, but once again, we cannot attract every man, and not even the ones we want sometimes.
This relationship blog is blunt, as that is the only way I know how to be. If I ask people a question, I want an honest logical answer. I don?t want to hear something to make me feel better or to keep me doing something stupid. We should all learn lesson, instead of repeating them over and over because we fail.
Too many people are in shitty relationships. Too many people are unhappy in their relationships and do not know how to change them, or have not accepted the fact that their situation will not change and won?t get better. Too many women feel powerless, and over the years I have watched women *think* they have gotten more power, when clearly they have given it away.
For instance, there seems to be a ?given? now that when you date, you have to put out by like date 3. Who made this up? Women? Is this what women want? Most women I talked to say no. So why are they following the rules instead of creating and enforcing them? The times can change, but that does not mean you always have to change with them. Sure, you may miss out, but miss out on what?
When did men stop pursuing women? When women started pursuing MEN. Why step up to the plate and chase a woman when she is doing your job for you? You won?t. It is time to stop making excuses, doing more than your share, being treated like shit, being taken for granted, being used for sex, and not getting want you want and deserve out of your relationships.
If you have any suggestions of topics for new posts, please feel free to drop me a line and let me know.
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